Why things are the way they are

F0r awhile know I've wondered alot of about life, not knowing where to go and the steps to follow. For a while I have been lost. I can not say that I reached where I gotta go, or Have found myself yet. 2 years ago I would be reminising over all problems and setbacks, putting myself down for no reason. I see people all the time doing the same thing, and its interesting to see them going threw the same things as you did. I try to help and give advice but thats only seen as beeing critical or (hating). Why is that? People just do not like to get advice unless they ask you. I was the same exact way...In Pain